Mike and Jim. I certainly wish you would reconsider what you are doing. You are letting an individual(s) run your life for you. I don't know who they are and don't want to know. But what I do know is this. I am a drunk. Although it has been over 28 years since I've had a drink, there is one luxury in life I can't afford to have. That is a resentment. Now for me to avoid resentments I had to learn a lot. For instance, I have to always remember that no matter whats going on in my life and no matter who is involved, It is never him, it's never her, it's never them and it's never God. Its always me that has to change (and that sux). But I can't change anyone else. Another favorite is, If I get kicked in the ass, it only means one thing - I'm still out in front! I sure hope you both reconsider. And if someone doesn't like me, That is their problem!! None of this may make any sense to you or anyone else but it is what popped into my mind and I just felt like sharing it with you.
Fair Winds and Following Seas
Bill H. PTC USN Ret
Chesapeake, Va