Is there a need for a ''mentoring youth forum''?

[AZfisherdude]

New Breed Anglers - Keeping the Future of Fishing

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Young Guns

[anchorpuller]

The Minnow Pond

[drifterdon]

How about "Calling all youth"

[shipahoy41]

"Calling all learners"

"Enter to learn..Go forth and fish"


"Did you know forum"

[Jig'n4Crappie]

This brings to thought a fellow bass fishing buddy of mine here in North Carolina, which used to bass fish semi-pro, organized for years an annual fishing trip/tournament for the kids from a local children's home. Many local fisherman volunteered to take a kid fishing during this annual event. Each kid pulled a number out of a hat and were paired with a boater. Afterwards, the kids weighed in for the largest bream, crappie, catfish, white bass, & largemouth. Hamburgers and hot dogs were grilled and drawings were held for the kids with prizes that were donated by various local businesses. Within a week each of the kids would send their boater a "thank you" letter. This was probably one of the most rewarding experiences I have ever had as many of those kids had never been fishing at all. Their enthusiasm and the smiles on their faces were just wonderful to see! Anyway, I guess what I'm trying to say is that most kids just take naturally to fishing and I think your idea would be great. They just need the resources to be introduced into the sport(way of life). Crappie.com members would be great at such an event for kids as well.

[south point]

I am all for it! I have 5 nieces and nephews and my daughter in my family and I am the only one who takes them fishing. my patience is not much better than theirs so I could use some mentoring on how to mentor. Lol! a thread like this would be useful for us seasoned guys to get back to the basics and remember why we are here in the first place. getting back to a kids level is harder than one would think.

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[shipahoy41]

There is nothing like having the family all together. We have all heard talk about the "generation gap" and there has probably never been a larger gap than there is today. Think about how everything has changed from the time when many of us were young. The music has changed. We have gone from the "The Temptations and Smokey Robinson” to "Gangsta Rap." Dress has changed. When I was a boy we used to patch holes in blue jeans. Kids now want to cut holes out of blue jeans. They want to “droop” their pants. Fashion has changed. Women are not the only gender who are wearing earrings. Now everything is pierced from the nose, the tongue, the lip, to the belly button. Let's face it. We have teenagers who are out of control, and kids in elementary school who are already committing violence without feeling anything in their consciences. F.A.M.I.L.Y. = Father And Mother I Love You. Regardless of who we are today, or what status we might have achieved in life, it is because we are standing on the shoulders of our family. It is their blood, their sweat, their prayers and their tears who have birthed us.

God wants us to know there are no perfect parents. It doesn't take anything but the physical equipment to be a parent, but it takes a hard work and commitment to be a Christian parent. Some of you had an easy childhood. Some of you had a very difficult childhood. Tragically, some parents have been impersonal and uncaring. They will never intervene on the child's behalf. Some are pushy and inconsiderate. Some are a drill sergeant, demanding more and more and never showing approval of the child. Some parents are an authoritative figure in life that can never be pleased. There are some children whose parents have made such a travesty of their role that their children feel don't want to have anything to do with them. They know they have done a sorry job. Look at its effect on the family. There is no emotional and physical relationship with the family. There is a lack of guidance, no time with the children, no striving to keep the family together. This results in anger, frustration and ultimately depression. The best way to be a good parent is to lead by example. Do the best you can and our loving Heavenly Father will aid in the rest. I want to let you know that someone’s parent is patient, and long suffering. I want to let you know that someone’s parent is kind and gracious. I want to let you know that someone’s parent is seen as supportive.

That parent is probably the parent who is taking the time to introduce their child to crappie fishing. We all should take the time to reach and teach our youth about fishing before it is too late. They are all eager to learn. Don't make it boring but just reach out to them and show them a few knots and lures to help them catch some fish. They seem very interested with whatever you were showing them. The father who crappie fishes will most likely be one who starts a new Outdoor Fellowship Ministry at their church. They know you can never sell young individuals short. You may be teaching them something, but if you hang out with them long enough, you will find that they are intelligent, and if you listen, you will learn something, too. Parents are to teach their children the fear of the Lord. What better time to talk with the youth about the Lord than while you are spending time bonding with them on the water. Scripture tells us in proverbs 22:6 “ Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

It's adults, it’s crappie fishermen, who volunteer their time to teach or mentor kids, that will keep the kids you influence from becoming the kind of "bad news" that we hear on the news all the time. It is crappie fishermen who provide the teaching and guidance in life and fishing to the next generation. Everybody has a hero or a mentor they look up to when it comes to fishing. Parents, and fishers of men, can help get someone started by taking the whole family fishing a few times a year. A crappie fisherman never give up on catching a fish and never gives up on life and lives it to the fullest. John 10:10 reminds us in the words of Jesus “I have come that you may have life, and have it more abundantly.”

Crappie fishermen are very competitive when it comes to being one on one with the fish. At the end of the day though, they are just happy that they are blessed enough to enjoy God's great creation. Philippians 4:7-8 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

[shipahoy41]

Thanks Ship for taking the time. What more could be said? I think none. Great post.

Thank you my friend.