wife gets it. told here long ago before maybe like our 2nd date i was kinda an addict. she didn't fully understand it until we were officially a thing so she really does not know any better. she sees all the bass stuff my dad has and all the crappie stuff i have and all the fishing stuff my boys are accumulating and just rolls with it. her family just shakes their heads sometimes when they come over but don't really say anything cause they have a mouth full of crappie. hehehe