I remodeled the bathroom and the kitchen. New cabinets (I made them), new ceramic tile flooring and shower (I installed), paint, and bought new appliances for the kitchen. I even made her a make-up cabinet in the bathroom. Bench and all so she can work her magic. Complete renovations. I could get whatever I wanted.
We do the same thing for vacations. We go on a vacation as a couple, then we each have our vacation time. She goes to Chicago for a 4 day weekend with my sister-in-law. I go camping- Crappie.com spring/fall camp, fishing tournament camps, and Canada this year.
What did I buy? I bought Slab's old boat. I needed a project, finished most of the home remodeling. I ended up with the boat I wanted, for about 1/4 the price of new. Since I got the new boat, she wants to go fishing with me all the time. Well, as long as the weather is nice. Not too hot, not too cold, not raining, not too windy, just right. I've been on the water 4 out of the last 6 weekends, she hasn't been out yet.
It's simple, what will she get out of the deal.
Bathroom-what I started with.
The boss checking on my progress.
What she ended up with.
What I ended up with.