WOW!!! Frank what an awsome thing you are doing. My church is also involved in the relay for life group and we have a support ministry called Compasionate Hearts that helps buy medication, pay for transportation, buy groceries, keep kids in school or daycare for suffering families and so on... Its a tough ministry to be a part of but definitly worthwhile. How awsome is that !!! Good luck and we will say a prayer for you on your journey.