The only thing I can tell you is somewhere down the line you are going to have to do something for yourself. Honey do's are ok, chores etc. If you always put these first you will never get to do anything you want to do. Then guess what happens, one day you die! What then? Make some time to do something you love! GO FISHING!
I learned this the hard way! I'm a list maker, if I work off my list my enjoyment was always at the bottom and guess what? I never made it to the bottom. Now I start from the bottom and work my way up! The list will be there tomorrow but you may not! GOOD LUCK!