Our thoughts and prayers continue with you and your family, Jan.
In difficult times like this we must always remember that the sorrow of the faithful should not be that of permanent loss, but the tender sense of sadness that comes in saying good-bye for now to a very special person who we will all surely miss. It will be all of those things that you will remember, the quiet moments, the smiles, the laughter-- the legacy of your "precious fisherman" that will always live on inside of you. And although we know it's been hard for you, your family and his huge circle of friends; it will surely be those thoughts and memories (the blessings) of all of those things that help to push away the pain and bring the smiles back again.
May today's sorrow and heavy hearts give way to the peace and comfort of God's love. Amen