Don't say anything. Tears and a good hug say more than any words. Just be there and listen to her.
I had a best friend of mine kill himself the same way. His wife walked by the bathroom and saw him with the gun in his mouth, she screamed his name, he looked at her and pulled the trigger. You never know what people are going through and what kind of temptations they face. Satan is able to paint a tempting portrait of anything, even suicide. I was filled with all kinds of shoud'ves, would'ves, and could'ves. I spent some time trying to comfort his parents and wife, they ended up encouraging me. When people are grieving, every word is painful, and it's easy to say the wrong thing. Just be there, be open to hugging and crying, and listen.
Last edited by Bowfin; 11-10-2008 at 11:05 AM.
John 21:3
Simon Peter said to them, "I am going fishing." They said to him, "We are going with you also." They went out and immediately got into the boat, and that night they caught nothing.
And we act like this Nightstalking thing is new.
For some excitment, read the next verse. A special guest arrived, they filled their coolers and had a fish fry on the beach...in the morning. My kind of people.- Bowfin