Have had some rough time over the last few years my self so understand how it can be. I guess the worst was when my oldest son was blown up by an IED in Baghdad Dec 22 2006 and side has had his leg amputated and 3 more times that they had to take a bit more. He still has no buttocks, but is doing pretty good and hopefully some day they will come up with something that will allow his stump not to tear open from his Prosthesis, but his skin is so thin from the burns and has no padding between his leg bone and his socket of the prosthesis. He and family are still doing pretty good and he still in the and his wife works for wonder Warrior Foundation. He works for SOCOM (Special Ops Command).
Sure sounds like it's your turn for a good break and I wish for you to get it!
May God Bless you and your family!
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