Bob #1,
Unfortunately it appears that type of response of women in general, is having a sad effect on the willingness of men to continue utilizing the manners that were taught during simple basic home training. I also hold to my upbringing, and often utilize the "You are welcome", when appropriate.
Chivalry is not dead, but unfortunately is unappreciated by some. A true southern lady will pause a moment if a gentleman is at a door, knowing that the door will gladly be held or opened for her. A "thank you" usually follows, with the traditional "you're welcome Ma'am". Some even take offense at the use of the phrase "ma'am". Don't know what this world is coming to, but my grandson at the age of four is being taught to hold the door. I too, am on a mission.
boatstall (Kappa Alpha Order '72)
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